By Jessica Bryn Thomas
Adaptability (adj.) = Ability to adjust easily to a new environment or different conditions.
Adaptability is a generally useful attribute to have in life, but when traveling on a budget it is essential. If you are thinking of going abroad for more than just one or two weeks, you simply must be able to adapt to whatever life throws at you!
10 things to try before you leave home:
1. If you are usually the sort of person who follows a strict schedule everyday that’s hard for you to break, I suggest you start by calling in sick for work for a day or so.
2. Eat noodles for breakfast instead of your usual cereal and fruit.
3. Take a cold shower, don’t blow-dry your hair and don’t put on make-up.
4. Go around town and ask people where they are from, if they know much about the area, and if there is a cheap restaurant nearby.
5. Take public transportation as far away from your neighborhood as you can and don’t take a map or a GPS.
6. Go find a bar or coffee shop and order the cheapest thing off the menu while sitting there reading (or pretending to read) a book or newspaper.
7. Go to a different bar, preferably one with a good happy hour, and drink some cheap beer with your friends, or, better yet, take the opportunity to get to know whoever is next to you or the bartender.
8. Take a cab back to your place, but talk in a funny accent and then haggle with them about the price.
9. Once you are home, make sure to turn off the air conditioning or the heat (depending on the season).
10. Have some friends blast music in the next room. If you know someone with a rooster, place it outside your window for the night. This is a good start.
To get ready for the traveling life, I lived in a basement. I, however, did this only save money, not to get used to strange living conditions. I started out as a pretty adaptable creature, as this basement was actually far worse than any place I stayed in Southeast Asia. That’s not the point; you probably have no reason to go stay in a basement. But maybe you want to travel in Asia. And as far as that goes, there might be some things that take some getting used to!
I found ants, hairs, and sometimes completely unrecognizable substances in my food. For all you sissies out there who scream and demand tons of money from restaurants if there’s anything wrong, you’ll have to train yourself to stop that. Or find some way to cook for yourself. The ants were the only thing really worth complaining about, and in that case we just got new plates and new rice.
I have gotten used to taking cold showers in a number of small, dark, and sometimes buggy bathrooms. In most of Asia there’s not a separate shower, you stand in the regular part of the bathroom and let the water drain through the floor. There’s really nothing wrong with this system, it makes perfect sense. It just might come as a surprise if you didn’t know to expect it.
Then there are just random things to get used to, like traveling salespeople coming into restaurants while you are eating to demand that you buy a book or a pair of sunglasses from them, even if you are reading and you have sunglasses on your head – I have been offered a motorbike as I was on a bicycle, no joke. As far as salespeople are concerned, you will get used to a constant string of questions and shouts: “Hello, motorbike!“ “Hello, massage!“ “Lady, you buy something from me?” Certain places are worse than others, but as a foreigner you should just prepare yourself to be bombarded with salespeople constantly. Try to be polite but firm in saying no to all of these demands.
If you do actually need something, you’d better get used to haggling prices. They always set the price much higher than it really is (especially for tourists), so you are meant to bargain. If you take the first price, you are getting ripped off. Bargaining is not being rude or cheap, it is all part of the game.
Some Final Thoughts…
Sometimes, things go very smoothly and you get from place to place with no problems, with hot showers, wonderful food, comfortable rooms, and amazing people around. But sometimes you have to rig your bathroom with your pocket flashlight to be able to see, find a way through knee-deep mud just to get to your room, and battle with a rat for the peanuts that you accidentally took into your bungalow. Just kidding, please do not fight rats in any situation.
But what I’m saying here is that you must be able to adapt to any and all situations. Don’t get mad at a bus driver because they stop every 10 minutes for unknown reasons, don’t get angry when you get a slightly uncomfortable bed, don’t get pissed off about squat toilets, and seriously, don’t get mad at people for not speaking English better! You are in their country.
Remember that you went to a different place to experience new things, new languages, new tastes, and different people. If you are going to be all bitchy about it, either be prepared to spend a whole lot of money, or stay in your own country and be comfortable there.