“One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.”
A travel buddy and I used to have a saying that we’d use every now and again to encourage the other to make a big decision that was scary or daunting. “What would be best for the book?” The idea was that one day, when we were old and grey, we would write a biographical tale about all our adventures and we must make sure that the content was as exciting as possible! Could Shantaram have been written if the author had have stayed at home in his PJ’s infront of the telly? Point taken. It’s easy to stay in one place. It’s easy to stick with the familiar and comfortable. It’s even easier to stay in and live vicariously on Facebook every night. But what if deep down you fancy a change? What if you harbour ambitious thoughts of travel, adventure and a life of spontaneity? You probably do because you are reading this magazine right now. And what if what you are contemplating leaving behind something that is perfectly good. A relationship, a job, a home? Why change something that isn’t broken? Why shake things up? Why head into the great unknown, which contains so much risk, possible danger and downfall. Why not just stand still? As Steve Jobs said: “Remembering you are going to die is the best way to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.” Every backpacker learns how to deal with change quickly. You meet best friends who become distant memories of your travels within weeks. You fall in love, fall in love again and then alas – it is time to hitch on the backpack and move to a new place. You have found the perfect beach, the perfect hostel, the perfect chill out bar… but you’re a backpacker – you must move on! There is more perfection to be found and transience is the name of this game. Many of you probably left behind family and good friends back home, a life that compared to many is enviable. Many of you probably have notions to return home eventually. Some of you perhaps don’t. All of you at some point – desired change. A yearning inside of you that made you step on that plane and seek something different in the first place.Packing up- not so easy to fit life back into a suitcase.
Saying goodbye to the office, a place that will always remind us of ‘home’ in Chaing Mai.
(By Nikki Scott)
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I have been in Bangkok for 3 full days now and i have been finding it a little tough to settle in. Diabetes, heat and first time on a plane had also taken their toll and I was starting to doubt myself for doing what I was doing. Fairly introverted by nature and pissed with 9 to 5 i had quit work to travel a little around south east asia before heading down to new zealand to see some family and sights there. I arrived today at a hostel where your magazine was resting at one of the table and I started to read your introduction, a well written piece I immediately associated with. However it was the last line that really hit a chord. “See you on the other side” was a set of words I had used randomly to finish off emails and comments with many friends before I left, so right at the moment that I’m questioning myself and my decision making, there are the same few words staring back at me from the pages of a magazine I had never heard of or read before.
Now I don’t believe in fate, but I find these words reaffirming for some reason. I just hope its a sign I’m doing the right thing.
So just in case it works out ok.
Thankyou.
James Aitken
Geneviève Langlois-Laflamme That’s lovely to hear! Nerves are only natural and fine as long as they don’t stop you doing what you really want to do… 🙂 We’ve got them right now in fact!
Thank you for this article ! I’m heading to S.E.A. in 2 weeks for the first time and for my first long backpacking experience. I was getting nervous and this gave me the strength and the confidence I needed ! Thank you 😀
Change for the Good of others and for oneself is always Good .